An unplanned pregnancy can bring many emotions, and when someone else begins pushing you toward abortion, those feelings can become even more overwhelming. However, no one can legally make that decision for you.
Pressure can come in many forms. Sometimes it’s obvious, but other times it feels more subtle, especially if it’s coming from someone you care about. At Bella, you’re not alone; we’re here to help you identify if you’re being pressured into a decision, and what to do next.
Schedule a no-cost appointment today, and keep reading to learn potential signs of being pressured to choose an abortion.
Conversations Feel One-Sided
You might bring up adoption or parenting, and your partner, friend, or family member quickly changes the subject, downplays your thoughts, or shows visible frustration. However, when abortion comes up, they suddenly become calm or agreeable.
These shifts may not seem like pressure at first, but they can cause you to second-guess your instincts. When someone continually steers the conversation toward one outcome, it can leave you feeling unheard or uncertain.
Support Only Exists for One Option
Abortion is currently prohibited in South Dakota except when deemed necessary to save the life of the mother. Sometimes people offer to help women obtain abortions out of state by providing money or transportation. However, if someone is only willing to help in that situation—but not when it comes to parenting or adoption—it shows a clear imbalance in the support they are willing to give.
You deserve consistent support as you weigh your options. If someone’s help is conditional, it’s okay to take a step back and evaluate your next move.
Control Becomes a Tactic
Sometimes pressure escalates. If someone threatens to withdraw emotional, financial, or social support unless you agree to an abortion, that is a red flag. In some cases, this may turn into emotional or even physical abuse.
Everyone deserves to feel safe and respected. If you’re experiencing any kind of pressure or abuse, you’re not alone. Help is available through the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233.
We’re Here for You
Even well-meaning people may say or do things out of their own fear. What matters most is that you have the space to consider your options and make a decision without fear or coercion.
At Bella, we offer no-cost and confidential support for women navigating unexpected pregnancies. Our caring team can help you explore your options and discuss your feelings.
Schedule an appointment with Bella today. You have more strength than you know; we’re here to help.
Bella does not provide or refer for abortions.